1. Aries (March 21 – April 19)
You just get bored way too easily and that’s why your long-term relationships fail. You are just constantly seeking for stimulation and excitement. However, that isn’t always going to be present in your relationship. But you have to find a way to stay committed to that relationship even during the stretches wherein there is very little excitement.
2. Taurus (April 20 – May 21)
You can’t hold down your long-term relationships because you are just far too hardheaded. You can be a real struggle to deal with especially with the people who spend most of their time with you. You just make it so difficult to get into an argument with. You refuse to listen to reason a lot. And you can let your emotions get the best of you at times.
3. Gemini (May 22 – June 21)
You are just far too fickle with your personality, Gemini. It’s fine to keep on adjusting who you are to impress all the people around you. That’s part of what makes you such an adaptable human being. But you should no longer keep on hiding behind facades and acts when you’re with your significant other. They want to be able to experience the real you.
4. Cancer (June 22 – July 22)
You are so incredibly sensitive and kind, Cancer. You are a very empathetic and emotional human being. You are so loving and caring. That’s precisely why people are very much endeared by you. However, you also have a tendency to get swept away by your feelings. You can be a little too emotional at times. And that can be potentially harmful to your relationships.
5. Leo (July 23 – August 22)
Naturally, you should already know what your biggest flaw is when it comes to long-term relationships. It’s all about your ego, Leo. You have a problem with just allowing another person to walk into your life and take up some space. And it’s all because most of the space in your life is already being accommodated by your own ego. And that just can’t work in a long-term relationship at all.
6. Virgo (August 23 – September 22)
Your standards are just way too high, Virgo. You are someone who tends to be too much of a perfectionist to the point that it can be off-putting. You have to understand that no one is ever going to be perfect. And setting high expectations for your relationship is only going to end up with you getting disappointed. Try to manage your expectations better in your relationships.
7. Libra (September 23 – October 22)
Design your own choices, Libra. Design your own decisions. It’s a good thing that you are a people-pleaser. You should never let go of that aspect of your relationship. However, it’s going to be very bad if you just totally give in to your partner every single time. You need to be able to stand up for yourself and actually demand for what you want as well.
8. Scorpio (October 23 – November 22)
Learn to open yourself up a little more. It’s perfectly understandable that you would want to maintain an air of mystery about you, Scorpio. It’s a defense mechanism that you have set for yourself. And you definitely don’t want to allow anyone to hurt you. However, being in a long-term relationship means allowing yourself to get vulnerable to a sure degree.
9. Sagittarius (November 23 – December 21)
You are just too noncommittal. As a Sagittarius, you have a tendency to get into relationships even though you already have one foot out the door. And that’s never going to be a sustainable way of going about a long-term romance. You would never be able to get someone to stay with you if you don’t show them that you are seriously committed to being with them.
10. Capricorn (December 22 – January 20)
It’s all just a matter of learning how to prioritize for you, Capricorn. You need to learn that you would never be able to make a relationship work if you deliberately make the time for it. You can’t just keep on spending all of your time at the office and expect your relationship to pan out perfectly at the same time.
11. Aquarius (January 21 – February 18)
Learn to be a little more in touch with your feelings and emotions. Yes, you have got your intelligence going for you, Aquarius. But that is never going to be enough to get you through life. You always need to be able to tap into your feelings so that you would be able to make your partner feel the love that you have for them.
12. Pisces (February 19 – March 20)
Cease keeping your head in the clouds, Pisces. Yes, it’s good that you think so highly of your relationship. However, you can’t just keep on fantasizing and romanticizing your relationship. You need to be able to stay grounded and deal with the realities of your relationship.
The more you understand yourself, the more silence there is, the healthier you are. —Maxime Lagacé